Learning Life Lessons In Unexpected Places

By Cheval John

Photo courtesy of www.craigmotor.wordpress.com

Photo courtesy of www.craigmotor.wordpress.com

Sometimes life lessons can come in unexpected places.

Like if you missed your bus to go to a sporting event or you have a flat tire.

The only thing you have control over is how you react to circumstances that is out of your control.

You can choose whether to have a pity party and rain on the parade of people who are having great days or see it as a life lesson.

I had decided to go to downtown Houston to put up a blog post and participate on Twitter chats.

When I missed the bus at a “particular time,” at first, I was mad at myself.

It was freezing cold outside and had to wait about an hour before the next bus arrived.

I could have continued to wallow in self pity.

However, I decided to just enjoyed the scenery and wait patiently.

After the next bus arrived and arrived at a local coffee shop where I normally do some blogging and participate in Twitter chats, a person was at the table where they was only one place where you can plug your computer.

With the batteries running out, I decide to make the most of it and in the process, I ended up chatting with college students and later, some business people who were on their breaks.

If I had arrived earlier, I would have missed out on the opportunity to have a conversation with the people about meaningful topics.

So the next time something does not go your way, take a deep breath and relax.

That could turn out to be a lesson in disguise.

Have you ever experienced a time when things did not go your way and it ended up being a blessing in disguise? You can leave your comments below.

About Cheval John

Cheval John is the Founder and CEO of Vallano Media, LLC, a marketing agency which helps small to mid-sized businesses use social media correctly to build a loyal following and in the process become more profitable. Cheval is also the host of "What's The Word?" a podcast about finding out what inspires people to choose their respective careers and how social media impacted their lives and business. He is the author of two books including the Amazon Best-Seller, "8 Lessons Every Podcaster Needs To Learn." He has spoken at Social Media Week Lima in Ohio and at Social Media Day Houston 2017 about topics around live streaming and podcasting. Cheval has been featured in media outlets including Ebony Magazine, Social Media Today and Forbes. He was named a Houston Top 25 Social Media Power Influencer (2016 and 2017) and a Twitter Top 50 Influencer by Onalytica in 2018.

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